When I was getting married, I was looking at my wife and just saying to myself.

When I was getting married, I was looking at my wife and just saying to myself.


"So tomorrow now this woman will just get up and enter car that I save for 2years to buy. So she will just all of a sudden start telling me that the house I built with my money is her house."

It didn't even take long. 

7 hours after marriage I heard my wife say to her friend on a phone call.

"Uju I am in my house now. No, I will not be trekking. Yes, I will just use my car and come over."

I peeped from the kitchen.

Because I know we have only one car and that car is my car.

So which other car is she calling her car?

Just 7hrs after marriage?

It took me a long time to get used to knowing that everything I own is her own.

And everything she owns is my own.

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